Areas of Practice

  • Divorce
  • Divorce Budgeting
  • Divorce Financial Analysis
  • Divorce Financial Planning
  • Divorce Taxation
  • Profession

    Financial Professional

    Academic and Professional Credentials

    Certified Financial Planner (CFP), Master Analyst in Financial Forensics (MAFF)in Matrimonial Litigation, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA)
    Basic training in mediation and collaborative divorce
    Advanced training in mediation and collaborative divorce

    College Attended:
    Mount Holyoke College

    Graduate School:
    Columbia University, School of Public and International Affairs; Institut of Etudes Politiques (Paris, France), Graduate Certificate in European Rellations

    States admitted to practice:


    About my Practice

    Lili is recognized nationally as a highly qualified financial expert in divorce, particularly in cases with complex compensation and complicated marital estates.  She received the national 2013 Pioneering Award from the national Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP) for her public advocacy and outstanding leadership in the field of divorce financial planning. Lili serves President Emeritus of Board of Directors of the ADFP.  Lili has presented national webinars for the ABA as well as for the national Financial Planners Association on financial topics of divorce.

    After her own divorce 27 years ago, and being a single parent of two young children, one of whom has special needs, Lili Vasileff, CFP®, MAFF, CDFA™ was determined to make a difference in how couples and families experienced divorce. Lili set out to educate, empower, and enable individuals to make informed financial decisions to achieve financial security and is the founder of Divorce and Money Matters LLC.

    Lili supports clients and professionals with financial discovery, analysis, strategy, and forensic accounting in litigation, mediation and collaborative divorce. She provides financial consulting, expert testimony, and neutral expert opinion for attorneys and courts.  After divorce, she provides clients with carryover assistance to implement terms of dissolution agreement and wealth management.  She also assists clients with post divorce financial disputes.  Lili further offers clients comprehensive tailored personal financial planning and wealth management. For more information, visit Lili's website at

    She serves also as President and Founder of Allie’s Dream, Inc., ( a 501 ( c) (3) nonprofit organization serving young adults with physical and cognitive disabilities (

    She is the author of "Money and Divorce: The Essential Roadmap to Mastering Financial Decisions" published by the American Bar Association in 2017, co-author of “The Ultimate Divorce Organizer: The Complete Guide to Achieving the Best Legal, Financial and Personal Outcome to Divorce” in 2011 , as well as co-authored a chapter “Complex Compensation Issues In Divorce” in the book “Forensic Accounting in Matrimonial Divorce”, published by Wiley & Sons in 2006. She has been quoted or interviewed in many publications, radio, and TV, including CNN Money, CNBC, Channel 12, Journal of Financial Planning, Bloomberg News, Reuters, SmartMoney Magazine, Kiplingers Personal Finance, AARP Magazine, Working Mother Magazine, MORE, the Wall Street Journal, New York Times Sunday Business Section, Morningstar’s article series on “How to be an Expert Witness”, the Financial Times, Investment News, Elle Magazine and many more. She presently is a featured contributor to and She also has served as financial divorce expert for NY Times, for Huffington Post online, for, a joint online venture for personal finance by Dow Jones and the Wall Street Journal, for USAA online dedicated to military families, and for Life & Health Advisor by AARP, and for FPA Consumer Website. She is invited regularly to author articles for several national law journals, including The New York Law Review and the Domestic Law Journal.

    Professional Organizations

    Lili is the President Emeritus of Board of Directors of the Association of Divorce Financial Planners. Lili is an active member of National Association of Personal Financial Advisors (NAPFA), Financial Planning Association (FPA), National Association of Business Valuators and Analysts (NACVA), Institute of Divorce Financial Analysts (IDFA), International Association of Collaborative Professionals (IACP), CT Collaborative Divorce Group, and Connecticut Council for NonAdversarial Divorce (CCND) Lili serves as the only divorce financial expert for TASA Advisory Services for Attorneys, as their independent expert witness and consulting authority in divorce litigation worldwide.

    Professional Trainings

    Basic & Advanced Mediation Basic & Advanced Collaborative Advanced Collaborative for Financial Specialists

    Professional Licenses

    Certified Financial Planner, Master Analyst in Financial Forensics specializing in matrimonial litigation, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Registered Investment Advisor

    Office Locations

    Location 1 ) 26 Maple Vale Dr, Woodbridge, CT 06525, USA
    Location 2 ) 2 Greenwich Office Park, Greenwich, CT 06831, USA