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2023.01 NYACP Newsletter Winter 2023 |
NYACP NEWS ~ Winter 2023Volume 5, Issue 1 In this Issue President's Message A MESSAGE FROM OUR 2023 NYACP PRESIDENT
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NYACP offers monthly virtual pod meetings for all of our members which provides the chance for our members as well as outside professionals to learn and grow together. Presenters can showcase their areas of expertise and deliver important information for participants on areas of interest related to our practice. See our calendar events for upcoming programs.
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On Tuesday, December 6, 2022, the Long island Pod hosted a Zoom Pod Meeting entitled “Developing Parenting Plans in Collaborative Divorce”. Neil Grossman and Bob Raymond presented information and facilitated an informative discussion about the development of Parenting Plans and how to approach them such that the parents understand what is involved in creating a detailed and sustainable plan that meets the needs of the children first and foremost as it also considers the needs and interests of the parents.
On Tuesday, December 13, 2022, The NYC Pod hosted a virtual meeting focused on the "Psychological Side of Collaborative - Part Two." We continued the discussion about difficult Collaborative Clients. We spoke about what are best practices and protocols for managing difficult and challenging clients, and colleagues as well. Further, we explored team dynamics, and how to manage all of these issues as they arise. The conversation took a deep dive into what people have tried, what has worked, what has not, and how to air frustrations and talk about these things.
Also hosted by the NYC Pod, on Tuesday, January 10, Andrea Vacca, Esq. presented "Tips for Creating Full Team Collaborative Cases". Andrea offered valuable tips that included and were not limited to how to create more collaborative matters and encourage clients to agree to utilizing interdisciplinary teams (when they think they don’t need it!). Andrea provided questions to ask potential clients, how to address concerns and objections, and the mindset that the lawyer can bring to these conversations. This presentation provided a great discussion and learning opportunity for all of us who want to build their collaborative practice and create strong teams!
Andrea Vacca, Esq. is the founder of Vacca Family Law Group, a collaborative law and mediation firm in Manhattan that focuses exclusively on non-adversarial divorce and family law matters. After practicing traditional, litigation-focused family law for many years, Andrea’s firm has spent the past 10 + years working only with clients who want to keep their divorces out of court and want their prenuptial and postnuptial agreements negotiated in a non-adversarial manner. She believes strongly in the team approach to divorce by bringing in other professionals who can help her clients address the emotional issues, financial issues and other legal issues that arise while negotiating their agreements and beyond. Andrea is currently serving in her final month as the Immediate Past President of NYACP.
The NW Pod met on January 18, 2023 for a discussion led by Meg Sussman about the use of parent coordinators post collaborative divorce. Parent coordination has typically been either ordered by judges or agreed to in negotiated settlements. Some attorneys also include language in mediation or collaborative divorce that includes the use of PCs in the event that parents are having difficulty with access schedules, which activities to choose for their children, communication between them, etc. The importance of the PC staying outside the Court system so as to maintain neutrality was stressed. The group agreed that the protocols committee should consider whether to permit/encourage family specialists to serve as PCs post collaborative divorce. The NW Pod meets on the third Wednesday of each month from 9:00am-10:00am.
On Friday, January 27, 2023, from 12:00pm - 1:00pm, Steven Kaplan CPA/ABV, MBA presented and Anthony Markus, Esq., of Markus & Sheridan, LLP moderated a follow-up program about 529s and Less Appreciated Tax-Deferral Accounts: Ownership, Uses and Transfers. A recent NW POD meeting featured a discussion covering a variety of college issues, including use of marital 529 accounts. Many questions came up about the ownership and transfer of 529 accounts. Continuing the discussion, this session aims not only to address open questions about the use and transfer of 529 funds but also to demystify various other tax deferral accounts with marital dissolution implications and opportunities such as HSA's (health savings accounts), ABLE Accounts and Roth IRA Accounts. You may not be aware, but several of those account types are intertwined and transferable. This was a very useful program and all were encouraged to attend.
Steven M. Kaplan, CPA/ABV
Steve is the founder and owner of S. Kaplan CPA, a practice focused on dispute resolution services. He has over three decades’ experience in public practice and is also accredited in Business Valuation (ABV) in addition to holding an MBA in taxation, giving Steve the “seen it all” experience to help clients with their dispute resolution, settlement support, business valuation and forensic accounting needs.
Steve has lectured on a variety of tax, valuation, forensic accounting, collaborative practice and matrimonial dissolution topics for several organizations including the New York State Society of CPAs (NYSSCPA), the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals (NYACP), the Hudson Valley Collaborative Divorce and Dispute Resolution Association (HVCDDRA), the Family Divorce and Mediation Council (FDMC), the Collaborative Law Association of Southeastern Pennsylvania (CLASP), the New York State Bar, the Financial Planning Association and the Foundation for Accounting Education. In addition, Steve has shared his expertise by writing articles for the CPA Journal, the CPA Litigation Service Counselor and the National Litigation Consultants’ Review. He has appeared on the PBS program, “Dollar for Dollar,” and served as a tax editor and consultant for Thompson Publishing Co. and Harcourt Brace Professional Publishing.
NYACP Training and Education Committee meets monthly September-June on the first Thursday of the month from 12 to 1pm via Zoom. This committee develops and implements interdisciplinary programs for all professionals supporting our work in the collaborative process. This will include periodic advanced collaborative practice trainings averaging once a month from September to June every year for all professionals by non-members and members, basic collaborative divorce training for prospective new members by members annually or every other year and annual day of collaborative process training and annual meeting in December. The committee will be given a budget approved by board on an annual basis and programs will be designed to enable members achieve excellence in collaborative practice.
For more information contact Melissa Goodstein (Co-Chair) or Anthony C. Markus (Co-Chair)
Upcoming Programs, Trainings and Events
The NYACP Membership Committee is a robust group of members working to enhance the quality of our membership, bring in new members and strengthen relationships with one another. Some of the things we have been working on include our Mentorship Program that was started last year chaired by Catherine Canade and Shara Goldfarb. If you are interested in being a Mentor, please let us know. You can get more information about the program on the website. We are working on ways to increase membership and to expand the reach of the Collaborative Process to our communities. To that end, the Membership Committee has planned networking and social opportunities for all of NYACP’s members.
If you are a collaborative professional looking to expand your connections with your collaborative colleagues, join us for our bi-monthly meet ups for lunch, coffee, or drinks after work. The NYACP Membership Committee is launching gatherings in Westchester, Long Island and Manhattan to offer an easy way to get to know your collaborative counterparts better with a simple RSVP. These small group (six person) meet ups will offer a wonderful opportunity to connect with collaborative colleagues you might not already know, share experiences and insights, and learn more about one another both personally and professionally. Invitations will be sent out by Abby Curro for each scheduled meet up, and the first six NYACP members to register via the online form will reserve a spot for the next meet up at a designated time and location. These meet ups offer a great chance to build up you professional and personal network and to find support and encouragement in helping families who have chosen the collaborative process. Don’t miss this opportunity to connect with your peers and get more involved in the NYACP. RSVP for our next meet up!
We are also working on developing our social networks. Research suggests that positive outcomes in our Collaborative matters is contingent not only on the knowledge, skills, and abilities of the Collaborative professionals, but also on the development of strong and connected teams. To that end, the Membership Committee has now formed a Social Event Sub-Committee. The focus of this committee will be to plan social events so that members can join together, get to know one another, and have fun doing it! We need your help! We welcome your ideas, suggestions, and participation.
Initial plans are for a bowling event for the Winter, a Speed Meet and Greet for the Spring, and perhaps a Summer Swim and BBQ. Some other ideas include and are not limited to a wine tasting, a ping pong tournament, or a sail around the Hudson. New members and ideas are welcome. Let us know what interests you! For more information, please contact Michelle Lewis at [email protected]
The Membership committee includes members from every discipline. We meet the first Wednesday of every month and we welcome anyone wanting to get more involved in the NYACP to join our committee. If you are interested, please email Ellen Jancko-Baken at [email protected]
The streamlined committee has been working diligently over the past two years in developing and adapting the streamlined model to meet the needs of our jurisdiction and association. One streamlined case has been successfully completed and the committee is working together with the professionals involved in this case to further refine the model based upon their experiences. To be considered for the streamlined collaborative model, prospective clients are first required to complete an online assessment called the Separation and Divorce Readiness Inventory (SDRI) with results analyzed by the MHP team member. It is only after this assessment is completed and clients deemed suitable for the streamlined collaborative model can the matter proceed as a streamlined collaborative case. Some SDRI assessments outside of the initial streamlined case have been completed with the finding that the streamlined approach was not suitable, however, these cases did proceed in the traditional full team collaborative model. Ideally, the committee would like to complete more streamlined cases so that we can more fully refine the model for training. To that end the streamlined committee hopes to be ready to present a training by the Spring/Fall 2023. If any NYACP member has a case they feel would be appropriate for the streamlined model (for example, two W2 wage earners, simple assets, aligned parenting, good communication and mutual motivation) before this proposed training please contact Abby Curro who can then connect you with one of the streamlined committee members to discuss the next steps.
The Committee for Racial Equity is seeking members!
Our mission and goals:
Mission: Support NYACP members to understand the impact of systemic racism on each of us both personally and professionally.
Goals: Provide programs focused on self-reflection and education to more effectively work with clients and colleagues who have been historically excluded from the collaborative process due to race. Through this work, the goal is to create a safer community and to foster membership that more accurately reflects the diversity of the greater New York area.
If you are interested in participating, please contact Jessica Rothberg at [email protected]).
The mentorship committee is concluding its current session on January 15th and will have a feedback session on February 1st. The new session is beginning on February 15th and will run until June 15th. We welcome new applications as both mentors and mentees! If you are interested please email Abby Curro at office@nycollaborativeprofessionals. org and she will send you an application. Any questions about the program, please contact co-chairs Catherine Canadé at [email protected] or Shara Goldfarb at [email protected].
NYACP support groups were formed in response to multiple requests to facilitate a support and development group for practitioners. The groups are generally focused on building greater collaborative skills and insights, share cases, and/or seek to benefit from meeting with colleagues doing collaborative work with our colleagues, while building relationships and community.
The Support Groups for Collaborative Practice (SGCP) are facilitated interdisciplinary groups of members who meet monthly over the course of 2 semesters per year: September through January and February through June.
Please contact Abby Curro for more information.
After years of participating in interdisciplinary pods and support groups, we thought it would be worthwhile to establish a process group for Family and Child Specialists to talk among ourselves about the work we are doing. The NYACP Board has approved this initiative, and we are excited about getting started.
We successfully launched our first MHP Process Group this past Tuesday. Six of us met and spoke about the value and benefits of this type of group, and we talked about what we each would want from the group. First and foremost we all felt the group provides a place for learning and support. We discussed the range of our professional roles ( Family Specialist, Child Specialist, Mediators, Parent Coordinators), and spoke about sharing the challenges that come up in our work. There was also a desire expressed to share some practical/business related ideas to support our work and individual practices.
We decided to meet on the third Tuesday of every other month from 7:45am-9am.
We have a rich and varied community.
Please join us for upcoming meetings which will occur on the following dates:
To join the group please register on the website. By registering on the website you will receive the Zoom link for the meeting. If you have questions or want more information, please contact either Jeffrey or Bob. Hope to see you at the March meeting.
Jeffrey Steiger - [email protected] or Bob Raymond [email protected]
Steven Linker will be facilitating a support group for professionals with designations and credentials such as CPA, forensic accountant, business valuator, RFC (Registered Financial Consultant), CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst), and others provide different services in collaborative divorce matters.
In the focus group meetings attended only by the financial neutrals, you will become familiar with what each can offer to the collaborative divorce process. This will enable you to refer another professional to a matter when the need for additional expertise arises. All NYACP members benefit from this, as every esoteric or unique financial circumstance will be attended to by the professional who can best advise the attorneys on Win/Win scenarios. If you are interested and would like more information, please contact Abby Curro or Steven Linker.
The streamlined committee has been working diligently over the past two years in developing and adapting the streamlined model to meet the needs of our jurisdiction and association. One streamlined case has been successfully completed and the committee is working together with the professionals involved in this case to further refine the model based upon their experiences. To be considered for the streamlined collaborative model, prospective clients are first required to complete an online assessment called the SDRI with results analyzed by the MHP team member. It is only after this assessment is completed and clients deemed suitable for the streamlined collaborative model can the matter proceed as a streamlined collaborative case. Some SDRI assessments outside of the initial streamlined case have been completed with the finding that the streamlined approach was not suitable, however, these cases did proceed in the traditional full team collaborative model. Ideally, the committee would like to complete more streamlined cases so that we can more fully refine the model for training. To that end the streamlined committee hopes to be ready to present a training by the Spring/Fall 2023. If any NYACP member has a case they feel would be appropriate for the streamlined model (for example, two W2 wage earners, simple assets, aligned parenting, good communication and mutual motivation) before this proposed training please contact the office who can then connect you with one of the streamlined committee members to discuss the next steps.
Dina De Giorgio is excited to join the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals. Since beginning her career in law over 30 years ago, Dina has strived to provide a peaceable experience for her clients while working towards the best possible outcome for them. By focusing on collaboration, she is able to save her clients money, as well as some of the undue stress that typically comes with the process.
Dina has practiced Family Law exclusively for the past 25 years, primarily in Port Washington, New York. While she previously ran her own boutique law practice, she recently joined Schwartz Sladkus Reich Greenberg Atlas, LLP as Partner, working in Matrimonial, Family and Reproductive Law. Their firm serves clientele in New York City as well as Long Island, with offices in both locations. One of her primary focuses for 2023 is to grow her Collaborative Practice at the new firm.
Dina’s desire to create a positive environment and experience for her clients has been the backbone of her law and mediation practice since the beginning of her career, allowing her to successfully advocate for her clients while maintaining mutual respect and collaboration with all parties involved. Dina looks forward to taking part in the NYACP community, continuing to develop her skills in Collaborative Law, and sharing her personal experiences and best practices with these new peers.
Mark’s early training is in Psychology and he has been at the forefront of the practice of mediation in Connecticut since the early ‘80’s when he was employed with the Connecticut Judicial Department Family Division while attending Law School. Upon admission to the bar in 1986, his law practice initially focused on traditional litigation of Family Matters at the trial and appellate levels in addition to his work as a mediator and collaborative lawyer. His practice is now focused entirely upon mediation and collaborative law; and he occasionally serves as an Arbitrator drawing upon years of experience as a court-appointed Custody Evaluator and Appellate Law Clerk. In addition to his law practice, he has taught law students about alternative dispute resolution for over thirty years as an Adjunct Professor at Quinnipiac University School Of Law. He is admitted to practice in Connecticut, New York, the Federal District Court and the United States Supreme Court. He is an active member of the Connecticut, New York, and American Bar Associations; the International Association of Collaborative Professionals (IACP); the Connecticut Council for Non Adversarial Divorce (CCND); and has recently joined the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals (NYACP).
Mark’s early training is in Psychology and he has been at the forefront of the practice of mediation in Connecticut since the early ‘80’s when he was employed with the Connecticut Judicial Department Family Division while attending Law School. Upon admission to the bar in 1986, his law practice initially focused on traditional litigation of Family Matters at the trial and appellate levels in addition to his work as a mediator and collaborative lawyer. His practice is now focused entirely upon mediation and collaborative law; and he occasionally serves as an Arbitrator drawing upon years of experience as a court-appointed Custody Evaluator and Appellate Law Clerk. In addition to his law practice, he has taught law students about alternative dispute resolution for over thirty years as an Adjunct Professor at Quinnipiac University School Of Law. He is admitted to practice in Connecticut, New York, the Federal District Court and the United States Supreme Court. He is an active member of the Connecticut, New York, and American Bar Associations; the International Association of Collaborative Professionals (IACP); the Connecticut Council for Non Adversarial Divorce (CCND); and has recently joined the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals (NYACP).
Closing Remarks
I hope everyone’s 2023 is off to a good start! This is your newsletter. I welcome all of your input, ideas, activities, challenges and successes. It is my intention and hope that this newsletter will be a forum in which through the sharing of information and invitation, we all get to know each other a little better, and strengthen our relationships, on not just a professional, but also a personal level, as we become more active in building our Collaborative practice in this coming year. Thank you for all of your contributions to building a meaningful and successful organization. Please don’t hesitate to send photos, blogs, or anything you want to share with our members to Randy Heller at [email protected].